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Gossip in the Workplace

  1. Review your company policy
    if any exists, for the guidelines on ethics-related matters.
  2. Observe
    Before launching yourself into office politics, observe. See how people relate and learn the unofficial roles certain individuals in your workplace have adopted. If you notice one person who consistently makes trouble, take the necessary actions to have as little interaction with that person as possible.
  3. Be busy
    Gossipmongers want attention. If you're delving into your work, you can't be available to appreciate their latest tales.
  4. Don't participate
    If there is gossip at your place of work, let it stop with you. If someone passes a "juicy story" on to you, don't pass it any further. Take personal responsibility to act with integrity.
  5. Turn it around
    by saying something positive. It isn't nearly as much fun to spread negative news if it's spoiled by a complimentary phrase about the person being attacked.
  6. Keep your private life private
    Don't trust personal information with coworkers. Remember, if they are gossiping about others, they will gossip about you, too. Don't give them ammunition.
  7. Choose your friends wisely at work
    You spend a good deal of time at work so it's natural for friendships to develop. Share information sparingly until you are sure that you have built up a level of trust.
  8. Behave appropriately at work
    Remember that work is not the place to share all types of information.
  9. Be direct
    You know you are morally correct by not gossiping. So does the one spreading the gossip. If you confront that person and confidently tell him or her that such behavior is making it uncomfortable for you and other coworkers, it's likely to stop.
  10. Don't be afraid to go to a superior
    Gossiping wastes a lot of company time and hurts morale. A company interested in a healthy work environment will value the opportunity to correct this type of situation.

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